Last Friday I asked if he wanted to go out with me and my friends and he said he just wanted to stay in. Then I asked what his plans for the weekend were and he just didn’t respond. Last month I asked him if he just isn’t interested anymore, if our relationship has fizzled for him, and he said that’s not it at all-it’s just how overworked he is. I really like him and we are great when we’re together. Should I just enjoy the time we’re together?Ī: I hesitate to sound glib here, but … how can you enjoy the time you’re together if you two don’t actually spend time together? You’ve seen him roughly once a month for the past three months, he’s stopped responding to your texts, and he’s demonstrated no interest in talking to you about when his schedule might potentially open up or how the two of you can stay in touch in the meantime.
